Covenant of Right Relations
UUFK Covenant of Right Relations – adopted October 4, 2014
We show each other respect
• We listen mindfully with open minds and hearts
• We speak with compassion and acceptance
• We resolve conflict and disagreement through respectful dialogue
• We respect the responsibilities and commitment to serve undertaken by each volunteer
We Communicate Understanding
• We speak in “I” language, taking time to examine our own assumptions
• We remember that each of us has a voice worthy of being heard, and we each come from our own unique life experience
• We seek to understand and learn from other perspectives
• We choose the right time and place to communicate, especially about our differences
We Participate with Trust and Commitment
• We practice focusing on the most respectful interpretation of others’ actions
• We choose to stay connected and engaged through difficult moments, trusting that we are each doing our best
• We ask for what we want or need, knowing that each is welcome to say yes and free to say no
• We make mindful realistic commitments and follow throughs
• We forgive ourselves and others when we are less than perfect and we try again
We Express Encouragement and Appreciation
• We understand that everyone thrives better when they feel appreciated
• We look for opportunities to offer praise and thanks
• We make room for recreation and fun
• We act for the common good of our beloved community